Friday, January 27, 2012

A Report from Winter

A Pervasive Sadness

It’s not often that I look up at a movie screen and say, “Oh, that’s me.” But I had that experience while watching ‘Beginners.’ It wasn’t because I look like Ewan McGregor or Christopher Plummer, though I wouldn’t mind trading my looks for either of theirs. No, my sense of recognition had to do with McGregor’s character, the gentle... Read more


It Gets Better…Except When It Doesn’t

The news about gay teen suicides has been so upsetting, it’s no wonder that the young and old alike have been trying to find solace and to offer it to each other. It reminds me of other national tragedies and their aftermath. The death toll among gay teenagers may be much smaller than what the nation suffered on 9/11, but the outpouring of grief is... Read more


One Year of ‘Winter’

It’s hard to believe that A Report from Winter came out just one year ago. I had many hopes for the book, some of which have been fulfilled. Recognizing that we live in what my publisher calls “a culture of declining readership,” it’s best to keep expectations modest. Far from being a commanding presence, the author—especially the independent... Read more


Where Are They Now?

My brother sent me a couple of photos of my mother’s house in Scarborough, Maine. I still think of it as “my mother’s house” even though she passed away in 1998. My mother's house in Scarborough, Maine My aunt Louise continued to live in the house, by herself, after my mother passed away. Louise died in the summer of 2005.... Read more


Talking Fiction

Sometimes when I’m feeling blue I pick up an Iris Murdoch novel. Yesterday I started rereading an old favorite, A Fairly Honorable Defeat, first published in 1970. There are many astonishing things about Murdoch’s novels, not the least of which is her use of dialogue. When her characters speak, they speak volumes; and it takes very little—a few... Read more


An Introduction to Winter

The captain announced our descent, rousing me from a fitful sleep. The Fasten Seat Belt sign came on, and I groped around for mine, only to find that I hadn’t unfastened it. As the captain’s carefully trained mumble about “our approach to the greater Portland area” continued, I gave the airflow nozzle above my head a twist, and a blast of Arctic... Read more


On a Night When Nothing Happened

Ralph and I celebrated our 21st anniversary last week. Like most gay couples, we don’t have a “wedding anniversary” to look back on, so we measure our relationship from the night of our first date. I wrote about that bitterly cold night in A Report from Winter. This year, to mark the occasion, I’ve written a poem as well. I hope... Read more


You Must Remember This: 2010 Lambda Awards

Anyone who may be worried about the state of LGBT publishing need only look at the massive list of books that have been submitted as eligible for this year’s Lambda Awards (or Lammies). We are talking about no fewer than 400 books. Many critics have noted that 2009 seems to have been the Year of the Memoir. In the Lammies’ Gay Memoir/Biography category... Read more


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