Wednesday, March 10, 2010

A Report from Winter

Talking Fiction

Sometimes when I’m feeling blue I pick up an Iris Murdoch novel. Yesterday I started rereading an old favorite, A Fairly Honorable Defeat, first published in 1970. There are many astonishing things about Murdoch’s novels, not the least of which is her use of dialogue. When her characters speak, they speak volumes; and it takes very little—a few... Read more


An Introduction to Winter

The captain announced our descent, rousing me from a fitful sleep. The Fasten Seat Belt sign came on, and I groped around for mine, only to find that I hadn’t unfastened it. As the captain’s carefully trained mumble about “our approach to the greater Portland area” continued, I gave the airflow nozzle above my head a twist, and a blast of Arctic... Read more


On a Night When Nothing Happened

Ralph and I celebrated our 21st anniversary last week. Like most gay couples, we don’t have a “wedding anniversary” to look back on, so we measure our relationship from the night of our first date. I wrote about that bitterly cold night in A Report from Winter. This year, to mark the occasion, I’ve written a poem as well. I hope... Read more


You Must Remember This: 2010 Lambda Awards

Anyone who may be worried about the state of LGBT publishing need only look at the massive list of books that have been submitted as eligible for this year’s Lambda Awards (or Lammies). We are talking about no fewer than 400 books. Many critics have noted that 2009 seems to have been the Year of the Memoir. In the Lammies’ Gay Memoir/Biography category... Read more


Do You Have to Be Crazy?

I’ve been a longtime fan of poet Galway Kinnell. In addition to finding his poems inspiring, I also treasure the book Walking Down the Stairs (Ann Arbor: The University of Michigan Press, 1978), a collection of interviews with Kinnell that he edited himself. Inviting a writer to edit his own interviews is like asking a fox to baby-sit the henhouse.... Read more


What We Talk About When We Talk About Carver

One of the strangest author/editor relationships of modern times is the one that Raymond Carver had with Gordon Lish. The new Library of America volume Raymond Carver: Collected Stories, edited by William Stull and Maureen Carroll, shows us for the first time how strange that relationship really was. As fiction editor at Esquire, Lish was responsible... Read more


Still Here: On Loss and Healing

Today I received a message from an old friend who just had finished reading A Report from Winter. She said that the book had moved her “on many levels,” especially since she had lost her father a few months ago. On top of that, her mother is presently in the throes of what may be her final illness. My friend went on to say that she had been “crushed”... Read more


Book Excerpt: Good Dog

In this scene, which begins in my mother’s room in the nursing home, I get to meet my brother’s ill-mannered mutt, Georgie. And Bruce and I discuss–or fail to discuss–funeral arrangements. Even when my mother was in the hospital, it had been Bruce’s habit to stop by after work and watch Jeopardy! and Wheel of Fortune iwth her,... Read more


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